Well, let me tell you, when someone opens their home to you, it’s just the best feeling, ain’t it? That’s why I always make sure to say “thanks for the hospitality”. It’s just common courtesy, you know? Gotta show your appreciation. My mama always taught me that.

The other day, I went to visit my niece, Betty. She lives in the city. It’s such a big place. So many people. Betty had me over for supper. She made a roast chicken, just like my mother used to make. It was so good. I ate a whole lot. I told her “thank you” many times.
Thank you message is important. If you don’t say thank you, they might not invite you back! And you always want to be invited back, right? It’s good to have people to visit.
I remember this one time, my neighbor, Mildred, she had me over for a whole weekend. Now that was somethin’. We sat on the porch, drank lemonade, and watched the cars go by. We talked and talked. It was real nice. I told her, “Mildred, thanks for the hospitality. You’re the best!” She smiled real big. I know she liked hearing that.
Sometimes, a simple “thank you” ain’t enough. Sometimes you gotta do a little somethin’ extra. You can bring a gift to show your appreciation, right? A pie, maybe? Everyone loves pie. Or maybe some flowers. Flowers are always nice.
- You can say “Thank you so much for having me!”
- Or maybe “This was just wonderful, thank you!”
- And if you stayed the night, you can say “Thanks for letting me stay, it was so kind of you!”
One time, I brought a jar of my homemade jam to my cousin’s house. She let me stay for a week when my roof was leaking. Oh, that was a mess! But she was so kind, taking me in like that. That jam was the least I could do. “Thank you message” I said, with a jar of jam in hand. “You’re a lifesaver!” She loved the jam. Said it was the best she ever had.
Another time, when I went to see my son, he had just moved into a new house. Big house, too. He was so proud. He showed me all around. He and his wife, they cooked a big meal. Steak, potatoes, green beans – the works! I was stuffed! After dinner, I helped with the dishes and said many thanks for their kindness. They were happy to have me. They are good kids.
It doesn’t matter how you say it, really. Just as long as you say it. People like to be appreciated. It makes ’em feel good. And it’s just the right thing to do. You know? Like when someone holds the door for you, you say “thank you.” Same thing when someone lets you into their home. Even more so, really. Because a home is special.
You can write a note, too. That’s always nice. A little “thank you message” on a card. People like getting mail that ain’t bills. It brightens their day. You can say something like, “Dear so-and-so, thanks for the hospitality. I had a wonderful time.” Simple as that.
One time my friend, Dottie, she’s got the prettiest handwriting you ever did see, she wrote me a thank you note after I watched her cat for a week. Oh, that cat was a terror! But the note was real sweet. She said, “Thank you message for watching Mr. Whiskers. You’re a true friend.” I still have that note. It’s on my refrigerator.
Some folks, they get all fancy with their words. They say things like, “Your generosity was overwhelming” or “I’m eternally grateful for your kindness.” That’s fine, I guess. But me, I just say what’s on my heart. If I feel thankful I say so. No big words are needed.
- Bring a little gift, like flowers or food.
- Help clean up after dinner.
- Offer to do something nice for them in return.
It’s just good manners, you see. Being polite. Showing respect. That’s what it’s all about. And it makes the world a little bit nicer, don’t you think? A little bit of kindness goes a long way. So next time someone shows you some hospitality, remember to say “thanks for the hospitality.” It’ll mean the world to them. You can say thank you, express your thank you message. Your words mean a lot. You can just say “thank you so much for your help” if someone helps you. They will be happy to hear that.
Remember that time when I visited my sister? Her kids are all grown up now. They had a big party. I danced and sang all night long. They even served my favorite cake. I ate three pieces! I had such a good time. I made sure to thank them all before I left. And I helped clean up the dishes. “Thanks for letting me share in the fun,” I said. “It meant a lot to me.” And it did. It really did.
Being around people you care about, that’s what life’s all about. And when they open their homes to you, well, that’s just the cherry on top. So always say thank you. It’s a small thing, but it makes a big difference. “Thank you” is very important in life.