Okay, so I wanted to share a little something I’ve been practicing lately – expressing gratitude, specifically for hospitality. I realized I don’t always do a great job of showing my appreciation when someone’s been a great host, so I decided to make a conscious effort to improve.
I started small. The other day, my neighbor had me over for coffee and some seriously delicious homemade cookies. Usually, I’d just say “thanks” and head out. But this time, I paused.
I made eye contact, and I said, “Jane, I really appreciate you having me over. The coffee was perfect, and those cookies… wow! You’re such a great baker. It really made my afternoon to spend some time chatting with you.”
Making it Heartfelt
It felt a little awkward at first, honestly! I’m not used to being so… effusive. But I pushed through. I think the key is to be specific. Instead of a generic “thanks,” I tried to name what I actually appreciated:
- The specific act: Having me over, making coffee, baking cookies.
- The impact it had: It brightened my day, I enjoyed the conversation.
- A compliment (if genuine!): She’s a fantastic baker.
The Follow-Up
Then, I did a little more follow-up. I decided to do a return the favor.
The next day, I pick some flowers, and hand to her, Thanks again, and express my appreciation.
It felt GOOD. It felt genuine. And I think it made my neighbor feel genuinely appreciated, too. It’s such a simple thing, but it can make a big difference in relationships, even small neighborly ones.
I’m still practicing, still trying to be more mindful about expressing my thanks. But I’m already seeing how a little heartfelt gratitude can go a long way. I think I get a very positive return by doing so. I will keep practicing and keep record.
