So, I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how to show my boyfriend just how much I appreciate him. You know, it’s not always easy to put those feelings into words, but it’s super important. I decided to make it a little project of mine this week. Here’s what I did.
First off, I started by just brainstorming all the things I love and appreciate about him. I grabbed a notebook and just started jotting down whatever came to mind. It was a mix of big things, like how supportive he is, and little things, like how he always knows how to make me laugh, even when I’m feeling down.
After I had my list, I spent some time thinking about the best way to express these things. I mean, I tell him I love him all the time, but I wanted to do something extra special, something more specific. I remembered reading somewhere that being specific with your appreciation can make it more meaningful. For example, you might say something like “I feel so lucky that you chose me. It means a lot to me.”
My Appreciation Actions
- Verbal Affirmations: I made a conscious effort to tell him specific things I appreciated throughout the week. Like, one morning, he made breakfast for us, and instead of just saying “thanks,” I said, “I really appreciate you taking the time to make breakfast, it makes my mornings so much better.” It felt a little awkward at first, but I think it made a difference.
- Writing Notes: Okay, so I’m a bit old-fashioned, but I love writing notes. I decided to write him a short letter expressing my gratitude. I talked about how much I appreciate his patience, his kindness, and his ability to always see the best in people. I left it on his pillow one night. He hasn’t mentioned it, but I know he likes to pretend he is not a romantic person.
- Acts of Service: I also tried to show my appreciation through actions. He’s been really stressed with work lately, so I took over some of his chores around the house. I did the laundry, cleaned the kitchen, and even organized his messy desk. I hope it will make his life a little easier. “Thank you for your kind words—they really brightened my day!” I said to him.
- Quality Time: Lastly, I made sure we spent some quality time together, just the two of us. We went for a walk in the park, had a picnic, and just talked. It was simple, but it was a great way to reconnect and just enjoy each other’s company.
Honestly, it felt really good to focus on showing my appreciation for my boyfriend. It’s easy to take the people we love for granted, but taking the time to acknowledge their awesomeness is so important. I think it brought us even closer, and it definitely made me feel more grateful to have him in my life. It’s such a warm feeling when I tell him “I appreciate your positive energy—it’s always great to have you around.” I think I’ll keep doing these things, maybe not every day, but definitely more often.
